Saturday, September 12, 2009

The Love Of Women

Just imagine, most people think Dayo is not a Casanova because he has got no gut to approach ladies. Even his so-called friends disappointingly share the same belief. One of them was one day forced to ask him why he decided to travel on the less-taken route. He said, ‘Dayo, I don’t just know why you refuse to enjoy yourself with all these ladies flirting around you, even at their offers. You have the looks and even the cash.’ But, should all good-looking and rich guys be womanizers? Dayo wouldn’t just know.

Frankly, he knows he has everything it takes to date as many ladies that come his way. However, why has he chosen to disappoint his friends by not yielding to ladies’ beckon? Should it be because he is afraid of sexually transmitted diseases? I don’t think so. Guys have really wisen up, most of them now go scot- free without any disease. May be then it’s because he is too busy for this kind of game? Obviously no! I believe in the philosophy that says whatever a man loves doing, he is definitely going to create time for it. I think I should just conclude that he has gotten no flare for such games. He doesn’t just love it.

I also strongly go with Dayo’s opinion.

I can’t actually feel the joy in dating more than a lady. I have, for a long time, been compelling myself to understanding why guys do it, but all to no avail. Please, do you see any sanity in living one’s life on deceit? I am yet to discover how someone would double or multiple ‘date’ without having lies synonymous to one’s saliva.

Even if someone can play well without each lady being aware of any rival, can that person also play smartly to escape the guilt of causing heartbreaks? Do you ask me how I would cause heartbreaks? For heaven’s sake, I have no plans to settle for polygamy. Definitely, I will one day be very much necessitated to get married to only a lady. Do I then choose from my parade of ladies or would you rather advice me to choose outside? Either way, heartbreaks are imminent.

Someone even once suggested that my failure to play around would result in my inability to choose the best lady. Whao! I never knew ladies have become some marketable commodities: pick one and drop, until you pick the best. That sounded much like sampling, didn’t it? I shamefully gave in to the suggestion and I accepted I was the loser. However, the thought that even though I don’t know the best, I have someone (God) who knows the best and is ready to give me the best if I patiently wait made me feel like a winner. It can be akin to the proverbial patient dog that eats the fattest bone.

The natural law of seed and harvest time has never been negated. In fact, it was reiterated as whatever goes around comes around. How can a guy think he can traumatize the lives of many ladies and get away with it? If nature doesn’t catch up with you, I bet you, your posterity will bear the consequences of your misdeeds.

Believe me friends; there is nothing as excellent as leading a simple life. I don’t see any lasting gains in making one’s life complicated with women. One just has to be disciplined and cautious with the love of women.

Thursday, September 10, 2009


If I say I knew what the world is turning into, I am probably one of the greatest liars in the world. What should be unheard of in any decent community has now become the order of the day. Do we then say it was the prevailing struggling and adversity that introduced all these? Or do we still blame the economic meltdown that has been in long existence in our country and have crippled the mind power of many, turning optimists to pessimists and saints to sinners?

Truthfully, the thoughts of poverty and languish have actually forced most people to do what they wouldn’t have done in the right circumstance. Folks have really been taught how to chase money at all cost- by hook or crook. They no longer care about their reputations or names, thinking they are useless without money. Regrettably, some have settled for money rituals while some for other avenues.

The innovations they couldn’t apply to their initial businesses or works are what they unanimously focused on this inhumane money-making practice. Should they have applied it, I am sure they wouldn’t have thought of alternative means. They have succeeded in informing members of the public that there are ages (i.e stages) to this practice. They flaunt to us how they have left the stone or iron age and stepped up their operations. I am sure you readers are not left out in the gist of beggars disappearing with their ‘good Samaritans’- paying good for evil. What a wicked innovation, you may say!

Definitely, you would have understood what I meant by ‘richcraft’. It, simply, is the ways of making money. Oh, sorry, there was an omission! It should be the cunning and wicked ways of making money, even if it demands one’s mum’s head (no offense intended). You will very well agree with me this craft has really been striving well in our country and even competing with other sectors in the areas of ideas, employment, profit margin and customer service to the members of the public- there proposed customer, since it has even gotten the support of our economy.

Sincerely, I adequately understand that some of us would do nothing to get close to this disgusting thing. However, do we try claiming our hands are clean? Perhaps I need to start counting some of your possessions you never got legitimately. Some you got from internet scanning, thefts and other atrocities. May be I have to remind you how you inflated figures, diverted funds for your personal needs in your places of work. Of course, I will never want to mention when you sent robbers and assassins after a business partner just because of money.

What I am doing well to drive home is that should we now go any length to get wealthy? We are all aware of the harshness in our economy, but, I make bold to tell you it’s not an excuse for leaving the authentic and focusing on an alternative, even at the expense of people’s lives. What do you say is the significance of patience if we tend to throw in the towel easily? We gave up chasing our dreams and we retire tirelessly to chasing the heads of others. Where did we drop our consciences? Beware; the natural law of seed and harvest time has never been negated.